The founder of AT Consultancy
Consultant, Speaker and trainer
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Some people point the way for you
Some people show the way for you
Some people walk the way with you
But no one can walk the way for you
So you have to walk the way yourself
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Marriage
All problems arise from these following areas:
1) Ego – refuse to admit – too proud to say “I’m sorry” – no empathy and not use the Power of Understanding.
2) Clinging to the negative present & past – fail to see the positives – forget why they got married in the first place.
3) Do not know how to “let go” – selfishness.
4) No wisdom to see all the misunderstandings are of “nothing”. What they may think are usually baseless or are of no consequences. They will not admit, give in (especially when they are right), Ego, clinging, “let go”, give in and no wisdom to see & know that there is nothing wrong with admitting, saying “Sorry” etc.
All the 4 items mentioned are the causes and not the External Causes & Conditions.
Ext. C & C are not there to harm us but we allow them to harm us. Which husband (H) or wife (W) will deliberately harm the family? Which H or W will purposely create problems or suffering to/for the spouse? Which H or W wants to create Pains, Problems and Suffering for self?
No one gains. If you agree please practice Mindfulness in these areas. See that your marriage is OK. If the couple expects nothing and just perform his/her duty as a H/W, I assure you that their problems will cease to exist.
Have a happy marriage.
You are in full control.
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